Sometimes we have to say “Goodbye,” and there is no choice. No matter how much you love your partner, sometimes the relationship is not good for either of you and the only option is to end it.
However, this is only true in some circumstances. Most relationships problems can be solved. The sad thing is that we don’t realise this, and we choose to give up and walk away. There are only two big reasons that I would end a relationship; emotional or physical abuse or some kind of addiction that my partner could not overcome. I would also never get involved with someone who is married.
You may say that infidelity is one of your non-negotiables. In cases where a partner cheats on you over and over, I would have to agree that the relationship should end. What I mean by over and over, is if you have caught your partner cheating once, you forgive them and move on with the relationship only to catch your partner cheating on you again. It depends on the situation in your relationship, as to whether the relationship can be saved and trust restored. Trust is probably the most important issue in any relationship, and once two people no longer trust each other, then the odds are stacked against you for survival.
I have heard stories about couples where one partner has ended the relationship because there were problems in the bedroom. Unless you are no longer attracted to your partner then this type of problem can be resolved, with patience and communication and perhaps the help of some good books and a good sex therapist. It is usually the person who is not getting any action in the bedroom who will leave, and it is this kind of selfish attitude that is totally inconceiveable, as this sort of issue can be solved.
Some people get to a point where they have been unhappy for too long, they have neglected the relationship and it has lost its spark. Can you relate to this situation? You do not need to give up on your partner and relationship here, this is another example of a problem that can be solved and the only way I know to solve a relationship that has grown a little stale is to spend time together having fun. Go out on dates, do romantic things for each other and most of all spend time each day focusing on appreciating one another.
If you feel that none of this applies to your relationship and you have given it your best shot and things have not worked out. Perhaps the relationship is bad for you, perhaps you and your partner would be better off apart. Before you do close that door and end your relationship, think about what you could do to improve things, think about how you would feel and what life would be like if your relationship got better; you just may surprise yourself with what you come up with.
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